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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My spouse verbally threatened to kill me in an argument. I ldon't know what to do. Did he mean it? Probably not? I hate drama, but I'm probably never going to get over it or feel at peace again now. Who do I even tell? [/quote]

Tell at least one close friend (even if you say “this was probably nothing, but…”)and write it out in a note somewhere where someone could find it. And then start quietly making some financial and legal arrangements for yourself. Very quietly. You are at risk and I’m not saying this lightly. Clear your browser history on the device where you posted this. Look up the documents you need to gather and start gathering the names of attorneys who work on high-conflict or dv divorce cases. I know it is not easy to just leave for an apartment especially if you have kids, but start making a safety plan.

Your job now is to get your brain from “it’s fine and this was just a blip” mode to “this is a sign of things to come and I need to face reality” mode. I have been in your shoes and I know how hard it is.[/quote]

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