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Reply to "NYT: "The Trouble with Men""
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This seems to be a thematic series at the NYT: https://www.nytimes.com/2025/07/21/magazine/men-heterofatalism-dating-relationships.html?unlocked_article_code=1.YU8.43pQ.EZ4bi1dHDtR_&smid=url-share Men are just unable to operate in normal, grown up relationships - or at least that's what the these articles would have us believe. Honestly, I think this is turning into a pretty tired trope. (guy here)[/quote] A lot of woman can't take the weaponized incompetence. "You told me to take down the xmas lights, but you did not tell me to put them away anywhere. How am I supposed to know??" Men need to wash their own shiz and clean the house, too. They need to not say they are "babysitting" their own kids. They need to cook 50% of the time or more. They need to hold the mental load of children's medical appts, dental appointments, school forms, field trip forms and dates, school volunteering possibilities, and carpooling if needed. They need to track the TeamSnap for the children's sports teams, bring the lasagna to the swim team potluck, and drive the kids back and forth to these events. That's just a drop of what men need to start doing. [/quote]
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