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Oh yes, the old "give me a BJ" line.  As if I am under some obligation when I am taking care of an infant, breasts leaking, using Tucks pads and not sleeping for more than 3-4 hours at a stretch.  Go masturbate - I'm not adding your BJ to my list of to do's.  [/quote]

Is this excuse still valid once the child is 1yo? or 2yo? or 3yo?[/quote]

No, but go read 12:02 and that will give you a sense of why many of us continue to not feel inclined.  When you approach me all accusatory that I am not meeting your needs and that you need a physical release what do you expect my reaction to be?  It's the selfish asshole approach.  If you made one iota of effort to say the things that 12:02 suggests that would get you a lot farther.

You men are really stupid - bottom line.  You just have a glaring lack of understanding how women work if you don't get this.  I am not a sex machine.  If you want me to want it, learn how to turn me on with more than just your tongue.  I need some feeling behind it, otherwise I'm just going through the motions.  Is that what you really want?  That's called a prostitute.[/quote]

It sounds as if you're implying that men are solely responsible for bring sex to the table in a marriage.  Why is it that men have to turn women on?  In a marriage, is the women excused for having to turn the men on?[/quote]

Like it's that hard.  My DH could go at it while I am changing my clothes.[/quote]

Plus, if you want sex, shouldn't you at least try to make it enjoyable for your wife?  You want a faker?  Like I said, get a damned prostitute then.  If  you want a real connection, then create it.  Or stop bitching.[/quote]

But she enjoys it...when she has it.  So what now ?[/quote]

Try to maintain aspects of your relationship outside of sex.  Going out on a limb here but I'm guessing you're neglecting all of that.  And I'm not talking about helping out around the house - you don't get points for helping to take care of your own children and your own home.  Again, go back and read 12:02.  S/he basically gave you a script - go practice.[/quote]

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