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Reply to "Hi, it's me, vacation wife. STBXH got a DUI mid-divorce- now what?"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Please don’t have him live in the basement. That’s a recipe for disaster. If you think the lower level could be a separate unit of some type, figure out how much you could rent it for and use the extra income to offset an appropriate combo of his rent and the house mortgage. There are no circumstances under which it is a good idea for you 2 to live together in the same house even if separate units. Actions have consequences and you can be empathetic and supportive toward him and still maintain boundaries. Boundaries are really important with cheaters and substance users. [/quote] My impression was that OP viewed the basement apartment as a revenue stream, not a place for him to live. [/quote]
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