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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]6/28 11:29 here.  Why is OP the mess?  She is not the one getting a DUI.  Can someone clarify?  She has to deal with this guy until they divorce and he is a huge mess.[/quote]

OP is the mess bc she won't let gooooooo.

They don't live together -- he has his OWN apt YET she wants to finish the basement to move him in. OP sees NOTHING wrong with this??
Let him triage his DUI and legal battles -- he's an adult

She's citing " the kids the kids the kids" 
He needs to TRIAGE how he will see his kids -- that's NOT OP's issue. 
He needs to seek help for his over use of booze amongst other things -- LESS HER in the way every single corner attempting to offer up  ideas and insert herself..

OP is giving I have no life outside of him energy.. She's far too wrapped up in this man's life as a woman who's divorcing him...for being a habitual liar and cheater.

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DP. The thought of a drunk driving my kids around would cause me to go crazy. I would protect them at all costs. [/quote]

Do share how? Will the courts put anything in place? [/quote]

Yeah, other than buggy Intoxaloc and BACTrac View or similar, how would you do that if the courts give him some level of physical custody or visitation? Please - share.[/quote]

The courts are a toxic mess and OP should not introduce her family to that grotesque system. But I do think dh probably has more of an issue than he’s letting on, and she should get him to voluntarily agree to get one of those monitoring systems in place. She can use the threat of an order from court as leverage, but she should not file anything. [/quote]

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