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[quote=Anonymous][quote]You obviously weren't meeting her needs. You really should take a long, hard look at yourself. Were you controlling? Abusive? She obviously cheated for a reason, and that reason was likely you. You're the problem. Are you going to be man enough to work on yourself? [/quote] Be careful when someone starts using victim-blaming language like this. Notice how the poster ends with "Are you going to be man enough"? The implication is that the OP was not a man (somehow), and this made it okay for his DW to have an affair. People like this poster blame others for their issues (e.g., they made it easy to steal, it was their fault for trusting me, etc.) She cheated because she wanted to. Not because of anything the OP did. And she will again, and again, and again.[/quote]
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