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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You don't want a connection or really any relationship, and  you aren't patient, really. You aren't exclusive and don't expect your dates to be. This isn't dating,  you want an escort for sex. You want just  sex, and apparently a lot of it. Just buy it. I really don't get what the problem is here.

Going forward...come back here in about 10 or 13 years. Story will be reversed.  [/quote]

How can I commit to one man if he’s not making me entirely happy and satisfied ? I do want a fulfilling relationship which includes the physical part. 
In 10-13 years I won’t be dating plain simple [/quote]

I think you will be dating, because the relationship part really isn't a priority for you. No judgment here, you are just wanting sex. If I were dating for a relationship,  and a guy said  he wants more of a connection, that's a green flag for me, not red. If he's trying to move quickly, I that's red. This is of course  because I would be looking long term.  And yeah, most men need a pill or something. Everyone knows this. You will too in 10 years. [/quote]

I don't think you're being fair to OP.  She's emotionally close to one guy and maybe two.  She's in real relationships.  She's not JUST having sex. She's also not ready to settle for either one of them exclusively.  She's saying she might find a man she's ready to be with exclusively at some point.

Here's the thing that some women in their late 40s or 50s sometimes say.  They have trouble finding a man who they connect with mentally, physically, and emotionally AND who doesn't have big problems (like job or financial or alcohol issues).  But that's not the whole story sometimes.  When they do find a guy who checks all the boxes, he's so popular that it's hard to be sure he'll be there for the long haul. Attractive , smart, financially secure women in their late 40s and 50s have lots of options but they still can feel a little insecure about the long term.  [/quote]
Three guys and she's having real relationships with all? Yeah, nope. [/quote]

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