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Reply to "If you’re happily married 16 plus years what do you attribute it to? What factors? "
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m in a somewhat happy marriage although we definitely have our low points. I married the nice guy. DH is kind, patient and kind. He is also handsome, smart, well liked by all, very successful and a fantastic father and person. I think the key is to marry a good person.[/quote] I could have written this. We are at 16 years exactly. I think healthy adults grow and change and maintain some independent aspects of their lives, so after 16 years of marriage it's likely neither of you are entirely the same person. Might be big things, might be little things, might be both. At a certain point, the key to a successful marriage is waking up every day saying "Yeah, I want to do this again. I will try." as opposed to thinking "S/he is my EVERYTHING! We are TWIN FLAMES!" To me, the former means more. [/quote]
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