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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Spouse A is right, but if I were Spouse B and you left without me, I wouldn’t uber myself to the restaurant; I would stay home.[/quote]
Yes, I would stay home and possibly even leave Spouse A. They picked their friends over their spouse. [/quote]

Wow, I thought it was strange an earlier pp said this B side was narcissistic behavior, not chill. (I fall on the A side.) But, dang, there is A LOT to unpack with your comment….honoring  commitment shows he’s not committed to you. You definitely prove pp’s point it its a test or gotcha. [/quote]

Yes, you don't leave your spouse behind over a meaningless diner with co-workers. You get there late, you apologized and you work out the issue with your spouse. You don't throw you spouse under the bus in front of co-workers. 
 [/quote]

If this was a one-off occurrence, then I'd wholeheartedly agree.  But it isn't.  It's a repeated pattern of behavior, where Spouse B has demonstrated, time and time again, that s/he just doesn't care about being on time, courtesy to the dinner companions, or Spouse A's feelings.  In that case, Spouse A was more than justified.

Also, what you call "throwing Spouse B under the bus" most people would describe as "natural consequences."  [/quote]

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