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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Sorry, I meant do you connect emotionally with the other spouse when you are with them or is it transactional?[/quote]
We’re respectful of each other’s relationships for sure, we don’t communicate during the year one on one, there’s my friend and I and then a group thread. These are what I’d consider my dearest friends, I love them, they love me, they love my partner, it’s emotional all year but sexual for a few hours if that makes sense. [/quote]

Do you and your husband later trade notes? Is there anything you get from the experience with the other husband that you wish your husband could provide?[/quote]

No, we don’t trade notes but there was a place we rented with thin walls and there was a bit of a competition going on. It’s a new but familiar and very safe body that we get full access to for a few hours once a year if we’re lucky. It’s not better sex, it’s just different, hot and thrilling and comforting at the same time.

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Have you done or consider threesomes or foursomes ? [/quote]

Imagining all of us all together in the same room doesn’t hold any appeal to me, I’d be too self-conscious. [/quote]

I haven’t done it but was told that pleasure would be amplified by the whole new variety of acts when it’s more than 2 people involved…. 
Just saying - you seem to have a really safe arrangement (from STIs privacy concerns etc) to try this [/quote]

We aren’t sexual explorers or whatever you wanna call it, we’ve never discussed doing this with anyone else but this one set of friends. We only see them once a year since we live so far apart, none of us has ever suggested getting together a second time in any year. 
Switching beds isn’t even something that absolutely has to happen, it’s just this weird thing that happened on one vacation and it’s become a tradition, it’s a super fun tradition but for us it seems like one Christmas a year is enough. [/quote]
This actually sounds very nice...and pretty hot, too![/quote]
Yes very hot. Just remember it is way more hotter in hell. And this once a year “tradition” is enough to take u there UNLESS you repent.[/quote]

Repent? Hell? 
 No one is keeping score. I’ll tell you something that if you really understand it it will relieve you of this weight you’re carrying.

The human brain can be likened to a computer and the rules that it follows, your brain does not have the wiring to comprehend a world without its existence. None of us are equipped to comprehend the experience of just not being, we all know what it feels like to be hot, cold, lonely and loved but none of us has ever had the experience of simply not existing. Do you remember what it was like before you were born? Of course not because you didn’t exist, just like eventually you won’t exist again.
None of us is going to heaven, none of us is going to hell so please just be nice to people, eek out some fun where you can and stop all this childishness.
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