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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Sorry, I meant do you connect emotionally with the other spouse when you are with them or is it transactional?[/quote]
We’re respectful of each other’s relationships for sure, we don’t communicate during the year one on one, there’s my friend and I and then a group thread. These are what I’d consider my dearest friends, I love them, they love me, they love my partner, it’s emotional all year but sexual for a few hours if that makes sense. [/quote]

Do you and your husband later trade notes? Is there anything you get from the experience with the other husband that you wish your husband could provide?[/quote]

No, we don’t trade notes but there was a place we rented with thin walls and there was a bit of a competition going on. It’s a new but familiar and very safe body that we get full access to for a few hours once a year if we’re lucky. It’s not better sex, it’s just different, hot and thrilling and comforting at the same time.

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Have you done or consider threesomes or foursomes ? [/quote]

Imagining all of us all together in the same room doesn’t hold any appeal to me, I’d be too self-conscious. [/quote]

I haven’t done it but was told that pleasure would be amplified by the whole new variety of acts when it’s more than 2 people involved…. 
Just saying - you seem to have a really safe arrangement (from STIs privacy concerns etc) to try this [/quote]

We aren’t sexual explorers or whatever you wanna call it, we’ve never discussed doing this with anyone else but this one set of friends. We only see them once a year since we live so far apart, none of us has ever suggested getting together a second time in any year. 
Switching beds isn’t even something that absolutely has to happen, it’s just this weird thing that happened on one vacation and it’s become a tradition, it’s a super fun tradition but for us it seems like one Christmas a year is enough. [/quote]

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