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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Men are far more practical about money. Women tend to spend whatever is put in their hands. He has a point, OP. He is observing how you spend money and wondering: Would I want to marry this woman who doesn't seem to have very good self-control over her own spending? Your debts would become his debts, you know. Men don't want a woman who will run up random bills. That's just the way they are, OP. [/quote]

I don’t have debts. I’m 25 and have zero debts. Paid my way through college and already paid off the small loan I took out. Car is paid off. I bought a condo and sold it 3 years later and made a large profit off of it. I already have a half a year’s salary worth in my 401k and Roth IRA. I have close to $200k in savings.

I don’t sponge off my bf. He wants to pay the bills. I pay some and the rent portion I would pay him is set aside in a savings account for when we get married. I’m contributing monthly to plan for a wedding and a down payment on a home.

He thinks makeup is nasty and prefers I not wear it. He thinks the manicure is dumb. He supports my basic skincare because it’s an investment in my future looks. Massage is helpful.

I’ve always thought that he is just trying to get me to stop wearing makeup. He hates and prefers the days I don’t wear it.

He’s happy. He has a girlfriend who loves him, an equal partner, and he gets sex whenever he wants it. Most 34 year old men don’t have that.

Oh and we won’t be having kids. Neither of us want them. [/quote]

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