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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This is OP. I am reading and reflecting on all of this advice and I'm grateful for it. I do roll over in an attempt to keep the peace and obviously that's a problem and something I need to work on to get through this. I just don't want to mess my kids up even more by making this acrimonious. It's hard. [/quote]

NP here.  What I'm seeing, on face value, is this-  three young kids at home.  Their mother moves out.  Their mother takes them to and from school, and eats dinner with them, but then takes them home to dad again, where they sleep, in their home.  They visit mom on the weekends, but then go home to dad.

You see them more during their waking hours, but my kid's elementary teachers see them more during their waking hours on weekdays too. Their home, where they sleep, where they live, will be with their dad.  And they will see that their mom moved out.

Think long and hard about the implications of this.  Don't roll over.  When they get a little older, and they ask you why you moved out, what will your answer be? If your husband is ending the relationship, he can move out.[/quote]

AMEN.  This is no longer an emotional transaction, it’s business to protect your kids.  He makes plenty of money to buy a new place.  You need to stay in the home.  He cheated on you, wants a divorce, and you are moving?  Hell no![/quote]

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