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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This is OP again. Sorry at a play with my kids. I left a ton out in an effort for brevity but I can clear some things up, just didn't want to drone on.

I haven't moved out, he's staying in the guest room. Will likely move out after Christmas. He makes over 2 mil a year, we've been married ten years so if I want I can get half, no prenup. I don't want half I just want my kids taken care of. I didn't marry him for money, have begged him to step back at work, obviously he hasn't and this is one of many reasons we're divorcing.

I am a phd level psych and charge $250 an hour. I can work nights if he has the kids. In two years when they're all in school 8-3 I will ramp up my schedule.

We live in a very small town, my parents are local. He's not close to his family (obviously a red flag I missed). The place I want to rent is five minutes from current house and two minutes from kids school and youngest daycare. The driving isn't anything different than I'm currently doing.

He's a good day, just a damaged person who can't accept responsibility for his actions and wants the easy way out. I don't know how his relationship with his kids will develop as they see more but for now it's good and I want to encourage that. [/quote]

ok - first of all you need to get your share of the marital property.

Second of all, why do you want the kids to spend 5 nights/week with him?[/quote]

If I stay in the home it would make it logistically very challenging for him to see them in the evenings. He'd have to pick them up on his way home from work and then drop them off again. Just seems easier for me to get them from school and have them till bedtime. [/quote]

He makes two million a year. There is no need for you live in an apartment and have all these complicated issues of pick up and drop off. Get a settlement. Buy a house a few doors down. You can raise your kids and they can pop over to his house whenever. You can work on whatever schedule is comfortable. SEE A LAWYER.[/quote]

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