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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If you offer to pay for his airfare and know that he has [b]adequate PTO,[/b] then it’s fair to ask why he visits rarely. Outside of that, yes, OP, that is unrealistic. I just booked a cross country flight for February for work and it’s 1k for one person economy class. When I was 26, there was no way I could afford that.[/quote] What do you consider sufficiently “adequate” PTO for OP to be entitled to yearly or more visits?[/quote] 1-2 weeks sick and Dr visits and other errands 1 week for themselves 1 week for mom [/quote] Lol! Mom doesn’t get 1 week of a 26 year old’s PTO. That is the type of entitlement thinking that breeds resentment. In general, people want to do things with and for the people who accept them for who they are, support them, and have no expectations of them. [/quote]
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