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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP you are robbing this son of not only a chance to develop some grit, a work ethic, and a sense of responsibility; but you are also poisoning the relationship they will have with their siblings now and after you're gone. Stop enabling and start parenting.[/quote] I scanned the responses until I got to someone saying this. It’s exactly right. OP is doing the easy thing now and totally messing things up for the son later when he’s useless and has burned through all the money and the other siblings hate him.[/quote] Sometimes parenting is to NOT do something- to NOT hold a person back, to NOT enable… some people wired to strive and have work ethic and others need to learn the hard way or YOU need to learn your very adult child is ok with his/her living conditions and lifestyle so you need to be too. [/quote]
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