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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]A parent of mine is laying dying right now. I have/had similar feelings to you for most of my life. As the end approaches, you will feel remorse for those feelings and regret that you couldn’t have a different relationship with your parents, even if it was out of your control for most of your life. What you’re feeling will corrode you. Take steps now so your future self appreciates what you’re doing right now.[/quote] It may not corrode her, but rather might further ( or more deeply) grieve the parenting relationship she wanted but never had. We can’t lose sight that not all parent/ child relationships form a bond. There is connection of origin, a shared history, an acknowledgement of food, shelter, and basic needs met but no emotional relationship. That’s what I am picking up on from the comments. [/quote]
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