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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]These threads about sugaring bother me. It feels like virtual pimping and thinly veiled attempt to recruit women into prostitution. I suppose you are targeting young women and also middle-aged women who are single mothers and/or divorced and strapped for cash (the latter likely more the case for this site).

The reality is, these sites are pretty seedy despite the glamorizing spin on it. Wealthy men who are attractive can get plenty of sex without paying for it (yes, even the married ones). It’s the gross men or the sexual deviants who have to resort to this. There is a danger aspect to it, which goes both ways, for the men and women who do this. Where there is money, there are criminal elements looking to take advantage.

I don’t care if other grown adult women do this. But as a mother, I won’t stand for it. And as a woman I won’t stand for it. I don’t see any similar threat encouraging men to be male escorts.

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It's just prostitution. Period. "Sugar baby" and "sugar daddy" are just prostitute and john. And nope, calling it "sex work" is just an attempt to normalize and destigmatize it. It should be stigmatized. Go on, DCUM, blast me, I don't care.

Among desperate women who are truly in dire straits, without other viable options, I understand why they'd turn to prostitution. But college students, young women entering the workforce, grown-ass adult women who are already earning? They don't have the excuse of being truly indigent, or without any other options, or being forced into that life. They choose to sell themselves for (as some have listed here) nicer apartments, designer bags, jewelry, trips. I guess they divorce sex from emotion or self-respect entirely. I suppose they'll say they respect themselves for finding a way to have the goodies they desire. I wonder how many of them, when (or if) they fall in love, wiliingly tell the men they love about how they sold themselves for designer goodies? Not food or a roof over their heads, but a posher apartment and new clothes? [/quote]

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