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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here.
 I agree with you all that I have been insensitive and unkind. To be frank, I have been hinting and doing diets with him for years, but he thinks he’s fine. He gets incredibly angry at the slightest mention of losing weight so I finally got really blunt. It is impacting our sex life. It is also impacting my respect for him. I don’t like that about myself but it’s true. He’s fit but has a stomach that looks 9 months pregnant from the side. I hate it. He thinks he’s fine and doesn’t see it. Tells me he’s in good shape. 
Also, I have a well paying job. I am thin and in shape but not ridiculously so. I have a good friend group. Our marriage is really solid other than this issue. It’s why I thought I could be so frank with him which wasn’t my best moment obviously. [/quote]

You did nothing wrong OP and there is truly no need to feel bad. Most of the men flaming you on here are probably fat and complacent themselves, and cannot stand to have a woman expressing a preference, even though almost all women have the same one. Ignore them.  [/quote]

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