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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Just install the door lock yourself, OP. It's actually really easy to do. Why does your husband have to be the one to do it? Install a lock & have sex early in the morning before kids wake up or take a "nap" on weekend afternoons and let them watch a movie during your "nap time", or have sex when the kids are both gone at school/a friend's house/an activity, or send the kids together down to the park or the corner store to buy a snack or out for a bike ride or whatever you're comfortable with (I realize this isn't a good idea in every neighborhood...but your kids are old enough that it could possibly work depending on where you live), or just...be quieter (this *IS* possible and I'm someone who naturally is loud during sex but I can be quiet if needed and it's still fun).

It seems like you and your husband both are treating this as a game or a test or a problem you don't really actually care to solve. It's not that hard.[/quote]
The person who wants it more has to install the lock, that’s why. OP is personally okay with less sex, but she gave a task to DH to put forth some effort and address her needs to security and comfort to have sex. He either doesn’t believe that the locks are necessary (which is dismissive of her needs) or doesn’t want her enough to install the locks. Either way, the consequence is less sex for him and a guilt-free conscience for her. Which might be the design of this marital game, who knows.[/quote]

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