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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Our sex life has dropped off a cliff [b]and while I don't really mind, I know my husband does.[/b] [/quote]

You're headed for divorce. Sex isn't some chore you're obligated to participate in, it's supposed to have spice, passion and love behind it from both parties. If you're no longer (were you ever?) sexually attracted to your husband that is a major issue.[/quote]

Except according to this forum, sex is an obligation. For many people, it is something you do to keep a relationship healthy, especially when you have been having sex with the same person for 20 years. Thats why people schedule it, plan it,prioritize it beyond just a fundamental desperate need for one another. If you have "spice and passion" behind every sexual encounter with your long-term spouse, good for you. But give me a break with the "headed for divorce" trope and join us here in the real world.

For example: I like sex with my husband, but not so much that I'm willing to jump through hoops be silent, be stressed, etc. just to make it happen within a few feet of my awake tween. I can contain myself for when they are gone or we are gone. It isn't enjoyable with them around anyway.[/quote]

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