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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My sister lives in Japan with a Japanese husband and the kids there generally sleep in the same BED with the parents and she's managed to conceive 3 times. I kind of asked for details and she acted like I was crazy "They're asleep of course."[/quote]

This is how most of the world works.  Only Americans have this particular mix of tacky vulgarity and miserable prudishness that is demonstrated so often on this board.[/quote]

It’s funny how we take the opposite line of thinking here. I think having sex in bed with kids is beyond prudish. just as I pointed out upthread, I don’t think that’s prioritizing the woman’s pleasure. I think the man is getting off and actually finishing so they can conceive. Certainly serves a function. And he gets off. But I’m guessing that woman has never had an O in her life.

And I’m guessing there’s not a lot of intimacy or connection here.

it’s much less prudish to actually want the woman to have a good experience and to have the couple make a little effort to make that happen instead of just using her for a vessel for the man. 
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I doubt they are doing it in the same bed with the kids, they probably take it to the living room or move the kids somewhere while the kids sleep.  That was my interpretation of OP’s sister’s reaction.  The kids are sleeping.  Make it work.[/quote]

Hard to move your kids when your kids are teens. Check back with us in a few  years and let us know how that is working.

Yeah, a lot of us are making it work. It’s just weird that there’s judgment on this thread. Sorry but I’m not gonna be called a prude because I don’t have sex with my kids 6 feet away. Call me crazy for wanting to enjoy the experience. [/quote]

I also assume these were not teens.  I don’t think Japanese people sleep in the same bed with their teens.  Although that would explain young people having very, very little sex.[/quote]

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