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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][b][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I will full admit that if he were the breadwinner or  even matched my salary, I wouid have zero issue being the default parent.

I am not ok with

Researching + piecing together summer camps
Doing forms and paperwork for camps 
Paying for the camps out of my money
Noticing that the kids need new shoes and 
Paying for the shoes out of my money 
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Sorry, if these are the tasks that are just *overwhelming* you I don’t think you ARE capable of being a high school level admin for him anyway.  [b]Seriously, researching camps takes like 10 minutes.  Filling out the forms? 10 minutes x number of kids.  “Noticing” the kids need shoes?  30 seconds? [/b] Then ordering a size up online is another 5 minutes x number of kids x number of half sizes their feet grow per year.

So generously we’re talking maybe three hours of effort per year, and you’re whining about it.  It’s obviously just about the money.  Sorry you’re not actually RHDC the princess you thought you were going to be 8 years ago…[/quote]

Tell me you don’t have kids without telling me you don’t have kids (or you live in a 1 stoplight town with one camp). Sneaker shopping for 2 kids took over an hour this week bc sizes are so inconsistent. [/quote]

It only took an hour? Order a bunch of sizes from Zappos and try them on at home. That might get it down to 45 min.

Camp is not complicated. Send them to the same one or two camps each year. Choose two and be done with it. When they get older, have the kids research the camps.

Assign husband to deal with paperwork.

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then who packs up the zappos and mails them back? and why should I or OP be “assigning” grown men to anything? I swear you apologists for useless males  …[/quote]

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