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[quote=Anonymous]I think a lot of people are ignoring that he spent the first part of your relationship insisting that you *couldn't* pay for things or it would undermine his manhood, and now has shifted to demanding that you pay for things or you're the wrong kind of woman (golddigger). But the overarching thing I'm getting from all of OP's posts is that she doesn't really love this guy, she's just worried about being single and 30+. That's no way to live, and there's a chance he realizes that the love isn't there and that's why he's being a jerk - lots of guys want you to break up with them because they can't initiate difficult conversations like "I don't think we have an emotional connection capable of sustaining a lifelong relationship." This guy can't even say "I know I told you when we first started dating that I never wanted you to pay, but it turns out that now that we're committed I'd like a more equal split" so he's not going to break up with his words.[/quote]
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