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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Boy bye! That's all you need to say. Talking to him sounds futile. I doubt he is going to fix what is going to make you happy in this relationship and if he does fix it, it's probably only temporary. Have you read some of the unhappy spouses posting on other threads about how their significant other is depressed/won't help out/is stingy. You are not married yet and don't have any kids. Run!!!!!

[quote=Anonymous]Op here. Thanks everyone. I am going to talk to him this week. If he wants to fix it/talk through the issue at hand rather than just be passive aggressive, great. If not, bye.[/quote][/quote]

DP here. If he has been paying for everything or almost everything for over a year, it seems reasonable for him to want OP to start paying. It deserves an adult conversation vs just being passive aggressive.

OP says she pays sometimes. Is it like he has paid for the past 150 times and you have paid 3x in a year. Or is it like he paid for 75 meals and op paid for 25 or 50.[/quote]

This is bean-counting. Score-keeping. Tit for tat.  [/quote]

As if every woman on DCUM doesn't bean-count and keep score so she can be mad about how much more she does than her DH.[/quote]

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