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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op here. Thanks everyone. I am going to talk to him this week. If he wants to fix it/talk through the issue at hand rather than just be passive aggressive, great. If not, bye.[/quote] Please let us know how it goes. And OP, consider broadening the conversation (IF he's willing to have a conversation) because I would be concerned that if you get more serious and headed for marriage/kids, he will repeat this pattern, by nickel-and-diming you if you have kids, and somehow expecting kid expenses to be 50/50 or whatever. It can happen; I've seen threads along those lines here. And it creates a terrible dynamic of "there's you, there's me, there is no 'we'." If you have even the slightest thought that you [i]might[/i] want to SAH for even a limited time--you need to know up front if he's going to support that sincerely, or only with lip service now and resentment later. [/quote]
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