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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I guess I’m a dissenter.

I don’t know if your DH is having an affair with his business partner or not.

But if he isn’t, this just sounds like a close colleague friendship to me. It wouldn’t bother me personally.

If he is, I don’t see how you monitoring or setting rules for his work relationships would help.

I guess I basically feel like cheating or not cheating is in the spouse’s hands. You can’t prevent it by policing his friendships. It’s on him. [/quote]

This was on page 3 and it is still the best answer IMO. OP you have my sympathy honestly if your husband is spending time with a very beautiful younger woman it is going to feel very weird. It’s just a tough situation. He may find her attractive or not. Probably he does. It’s part of life.

Honestly nothing you described sounded like inappropriate discussion. If he was telling her she was beautiful at work or she was giving tons of over the top compliments about his appearance or something I would be uncomfortable with that (that actually has happened- there’s a woman who used to work with my husband who would just fawn over him about what a genius he was and how charming he was etc etc) but not just hanging out.

Anyway he’s going to do what he’s going to do. I Think all you can do is focus on strengthening your marriage - try to continue to connect and have fun together. I don’t look like a hot 20 year old anymore either but hopefully I am still fun and enjoyable![/quote]

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