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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Please people by "diverse" he means he wants flavors that are not Korean.

He is not saying Korean food is not part of a diverse spectrum. [/quote]

I mean, [b]he's clearly dealing with some mental health issues,[/b] it's not really about the diversity of Korean food or whether Korean food includes enough cream and oregano.

Anyway, it's almost certainly a troll and I haven't laughed so hard at one in a long time. [/quote]

He's dealing with the wife's mental health issues.

Why are people focusing on the type of food? It's not about Korean food. It's about a spouse who won't compromise and whines when she doesn't get her way. That's the problem that needs to be dealt with, probably in therapy, since the natural solution - take turns picking where we eat when we go out -- has obviously not worked.

The wife being unable suck it up and eat, without whining, at a not-first-choice cuisine a couple times a month is a serious personality problem and no doubt shows up in controlling behavior in other parts of their life.[/quote]

Well, we don't know what's going on, but based on the hysterical tone of the OP and his claims that he needs to eat more cream and oregano to be happy... I suspect, well, I suspect it's a troll. But let's say it's not, I suspect we're dealing with someone who has some issues. By the sounds of it—but we'd really need to hear from the wife—he seems like he's silent in person, and weepy and talking of divorce here.

If every Friday night she says, "hey, let's go treat ourself to some delicious korean food" and he silently nods and follows her to the car, I'm sorry I have no sympathy. And, really, I can't imagine many scenarios where a woman is going to violently force a man into a car, drive him to a korean restaurant, forcefully drag him inside and, in front of all the other customers and staff, force feed him delicious Korean food. He's clearly playing along, and not speaking up for himself. My question is, does his wife even KNOW that he wants oregano and cream and not bulgogi?

I think he secretly has enormous resentment towards his wife, is stifling it and it's all coming bubbling out... the cream is the straw that broke the camel's back, to mix our metaphors.[/quote]

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