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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]People here are missing the biggest point, which is that OP’s husband extended these invitations without talking with her at all. This would be insane whether there was a new baby, a toddler, no kids, etc. You don’t invite houseguests to stay in your home for multiple days without consulting the person with whom you live. All the arguing about where family should stay, who gets veto power, etc. is a distraction. Husband did not communicate with his wife on a major issue that impacts her. Not doing so 16 days after childbirth is especially egregious and needs to be addressed. This is why she should put her foot down. This is a precedent-setting event. [/quote] He messed up. She should call him out on that, sure. But the punishment isn’t keeping the grandparents away if he steps and does the work for their visit.[/quote]
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