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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Your husband gets a 50% say. The baby is equally his. Sorry, Mom you don't rule. You don't get more of a say. You can be resting. They can stop by for a brief time and he can introduce them to the baby. They shouldn't stay with you though.

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This is bull$hit. It is her body that is healing. He did his part in creation 9 months and 16 days ago. She gets more of a vote because of this.

It is not easy to predict when the baby will be sleeping and when she will be resting. Feeding schedules depend on her if she is breastfeeding. My son WOULD NOT take a bottle even if it was expressed milk. I needed to be the one to feed him. Second child had erratic feeding and sleeping patterns and cried ALOT.

Mom gets the deciding vote. A good partner recognizes this and realizes that his wife and baby come before his parents. Good in laws recognize this too. [/quote]

within reason. I do think she gets veto power over who will actually stay in the house for the first few months, but not on visitors in general. [/quote]

I agree with this, and because the new mom gets veto power, I think she should be a benevolent dictator and the DH should be stepping up on taking care of any guests.[/quote]

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