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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Whew, I got bored reading the responses around page 3 :-) My two cents, as a Jewish person who has attended probably over 50 bar/bat mitzvahs in my life - first, it is normal for friends of the bar mitzvah boy (your DS) to be invited without such child's parents/siblings - it is also normal for friends of the parents of the bar mitzvah boy (you and DH) to be invited without your kids (meaning in each case, often a whole nuclear family is not invited as guests). In your case, though, as what I would describe as "family friends" of the host family, I would have expected that your whole family including your daughter be invited, or else no one be invited except your DS who is good pals with the bar mitzvah boy. That all having been said, I can't think of any polite way to raise this with the hosts- other than to ask if it was inadvertent that your DD was not invited.[/quote] as a jewish mom of 2 soon to be bt mitzvah boys plus 1 to this[/quote]
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