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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Have you asked him how he would feel if you saw others?[/quote] OP here. He says, "jealous." But he also says he feels like this is something he wants to work on and get over.[/quote] Yikes. So much room for abuse and coercive control in his statement. He has set the situation up so that you cannot behave equally as he does without risking his "jealousy" which he will "work on," which means by default he is jealous and you are walking on eggshells. Either he wants an open relationship for himself and is perfectly happy for you to see other people on exactly the same terms as he does, or he thinks non-monogamy is a privilege only he gets to enjoy unencumbered by your worry or jealousy. For me the issue isn't non-monogamy v monogamy, it's equality. [/quote]
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