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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here.  She's here.  She brought her husband for some reason.  She knows it is awkward and they are avoiding me.  I am fuming.

Yes, it is my fault for saying yes.  I am horrible with conflict and am I am going to be a more selfish person in the future.  [/quote]

OP again.  Can I just reiterate how irritated I am that she brought her husband and the two of them are now in the room with the treadmill, watching them dismantle it.  He didn't even greet me; they walked past me as if I am the help.  So, yeah, I guess the PP who observed earlier that the "friendship" is just one of convenience to her was correct.

Anyway, thanks for those who commented here, even to tell me I'm irresponsible (I probably am).  This is something I've known I need to work on with myself (learning to back away from friendships that are one-sided).  I lost my parents young (in college) and I've long had a tendency to hold onto relationships I should let go because of that, I think.  I'm working on it with my online therapist.  I'm going to be more selfish and more guarded in my new location.  [/quote]

OP I’m pp and just reading your next response. You described in your OP all the things you and your friend did together. You’ve spent so much time with her and nos suddenly because of one stupid situation you’re a victim. Hopefully when you calm down you can look at the situation more objectively so you don’t screw up another friendship. [/quote]

Incorrect. OP did nothing wrong. Her friend is a selfish user and now OP is on the losing end of that. OP IS the victim. Only another selfish user would think otherwise. 
Good riddance to friend B. [/quote]

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