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I am not a therapist and I have never been in this situation, but I would gently suggest that you rethink this.... [/quote]

Too many therapists normalize and try to take the stigma out of immoral events.  Just leads to more selfishness and irresponsibility.  Parents made a life long commitment to each other and the family.  Sin is sin.  Wrong is wrong.  Truth is good.[/quote]

[b]I don't think that black and white kind of thinking is necessarily best for kids.[/b] You can respectfully disagree. [/quote]

Exactly. When one partner has an affair it's usually because of the other partner's failings, so you can't say it's inherently "wrong". The other partner may abuse, nag, pay too much attention to the kids, let herself go, or failed to attain the professional success he should have based on his education and family background. So being disappointed in the other partner, the person opens up his/her eyes and monkey-branches to a better situation.

IOW, if someone comes along and seduces your spouse, it wasn't meant to be.[/quote]
Nice way to shift blame and justify the affair. Some people just have a weak moral compass.[/quote]

Agree.  If you break a promise by having an affair, that is purely that your fault.  [/quote]

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