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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Tbh I'm mortified that so many ppl feel comfortable telling a woman who just had a baby and confirmed she has pp that she should leave her DH because of this.

You're awful awful people. Are you so removed from having a weeks old baby that you don't know that BOTH of the new parents are probably reeling - her esp but just in general this is a very stressful sleepless time.

Please OP. Get some sleep and help if you can. Maybe have a family member or good friend come over and just give you a break to take a real shower, eat a real meal and get some hours of true sleep. I almost divorced my DH during the first year and it was hell. But we got through it. We were both irrational. And even if the issue is valid - it shouldn't be end of relationship defining and I promise you both can compromise and come up with a plan.

FWIW - I had a cat at the same time and she hated my baby. Never did like him but stayed away / kept to herself until she died of old age when my DS was 3. The advice of the vet (your bf handling everything) is sound and also talking it out. Your bf doesn't love the cat more than you and baby. And you don't want the cat thrown in the garbage. There's some middle ground. And at the end of the day if the cat is aggressive and needs to be re-homed, it should be a mutual decision after at least some compromise on how to handle it now.[/quote]

OP here. I think you wrote on the wrong post. I’m not married and I don’t have any kids or a cat. [/quote]

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