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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Untreated ADHD[/quote]

+ a million.  And then add in binge drinking, misuse of Adderall and failure to deal with baggage from his upbringing.[/quote]

The upbringing stuff is hard.....no, difficult....no, impossible.  The immense, consistent, blatant and constant and consistent lack of respect between his parents, their basically hating each other and living volatile, hate filled, antagonistic, spiteful, mean spirited, passive aggressive, truly miserable lives under the same roof - and this was at the beginning of their marriage, which was not long to begin with. Add a bunch of kids (because checking off boxes, in spite of severe incompetence and "we wouldn't want anyone thinking we were/are a lesbian, would we?"), and it is pure hate throughout the entire household. Of course it channeled down to and amongst and between the kids!

Great times when you throw in lack of empathy, emotion and communication. Sign me up! What I will never understand is DH's need to channel their miserable life, even though DH doesn't even like these people. I get it, it is all DH knows, but my God - learn from the misery. The family being drama prone and half having ADD/ASD makes it complicated, especially because they will not seek help. [/quote]

* Not saying my family is perfect, but we at least deal with our shyt. [/quote]

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