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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]We had marriage problems for awhile and DH declined to have sex with me.

It made me insane.  I was late 30s and couldn’t imagine that this was the end of my sex life.  I cried a lot.  I eventually engaged in an emotional affair but cut it off because I realized I would rather divorce my husband than lose my integrity.  The other man made me feel alive again.  My husband and I eventually worked things out.  Years ago I would have been very judgmental of someone who committed adultery but having been through the experience I had I don’t judge anyone who makes a bad decision when they have that kind of lonely desperation.  It makes you nuts.[/quote]

I wrote this and I also just realized… the “bad period” made me fall out of love with my husband.  [b]Before, he was the only man in the world to me.  After he rejected me for a number of years, that was no longer the case.  After we reconciled, I still love him, but it is not the same.  [/b]I can see myself moving on and living my life without him, and having a positive life too.  It is sort of sad, to lose that, and I would warn anyone who feels depriving their spouse of sex is not a big deal.  It could destroy their love for you.[/quote]

+1000000.  I love him and we have a family but no longer feel the same way I once did. He taught me I can’t turn to him for sex. I’m on my own. [/quote]

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