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[quote=Anonymous][img][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]She’s trying to control things and ensure she ends up with “what she deserves” this time after getting hurt - but can’t admit that for all her plans and schemes and “value” she’s presented through her lifestyle and virtue signaling- her only current option is a divorced guy with a young kid.

OP you may need to realign your self assessment based on what current market value seems to be signaling. [/quote]

OP here - I’m actually meeting plenty of childless men in their 40s. Just haven’t met the one I would be equally attracted to.  This is one of the reasons I’m wary going into this current situation with the single dad. He has a child, I already met his friends, and it just makes the whole thing more ethically difficult for me to navigate. I do realize the moral responsibility for giving him a sense of relationship, with all other life commitments that he has. [/quote]

Op, as long as you are honest, I won’t give you a hard about the morals of anything you are doing.

But you do strike me as quite a drama queen. If you don’t want to be a step mother but want to share house in a couple years, why would you even entertain dating a guy with young kids?[/quote]

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