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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don’t think young kids should be in a locker room alone.

Just google locker room assaults.

https://wjla.com/news/local/woman-alleges-rape-assault-inside-wilson-aquatic-center-locker-room-97400

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These are not young kids. [/quote]

When your 11 yr old is raped in a locker room, lets so how old you think they are.[/quote]

Well, I hope you’re fine with your 11 year old seeing bare breasts and crotches, then. Because I’m not covering up just because he’s there. You can’t have it both ways.[/quote]

Not to mention the younger girls in the locker room who don’t want to be naked in front of a male peer. What about their comfort? And their right to not be ogled and not have to see a peer’s penis. Not much different from subway flashers. [/quote]

It has been well established that girls are not allowed to complain about [i]their feelings[/i] of privacy or unease about having males naked with them.  [/quote]

Yes, the feelings of the flasher who wants to force trapped women and girls to see his penis matter much more than the dumb feelings of any girls who might be scared of such a man. We have all been taught that lesson. [/quote]

Actually nudity is not inherently threatening and so if anyone is “afraid” of a penis or breast they were taught to be so by their parents. If parents are so worried about scared kids then maybe they shouldn’t teach them to be scared of the human body.[/quote]

Right, the millennia of men killing, raping, and torturing women is just imaginary or something. 🙄🙄[/quote]

Seldom remembered fact is that men have spent millennia killing, raping, and torturing men too.[/quote]

We are aware.  But we are also not the ones to fix this problem or be forced to be the safe space for men that are scared of men.  [/quote]

An 11 year old is not a man first off. He is just as vulnerable as your 11 year old girl when it comes to predators. I have a 6 year old and there is no chance on gods green earth I am letting him go into a restroom OR changing room solo. I wouldnt let my 6 year old daughter either. [/quote]

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