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[quote=Anonymous][quote]The “men” in the situations purportedly don’t call them “exclusive sexual relationships”. They’re just FWB. You want sexual exclusivity and emotional vulnerability [b]while still openly shopping for better[/b]. [/quote]

This. OP you want to have sex with this single Dad and date others. What is the point of that except to keep looking for a better option and bail once you find it? And that's OK! You don't need anyone's permission. You do need to be honest, and the fact that you're struggling with this at all tells me you're trying to squirm out of that responsibility. Ethically, you can't. You seem to want to have a special category carved out for what you're doing, which is no different than labeling this guy "Mr. Right Now", except to say he can't sleep with others, wants to date you, you don't want to date just him, but you'll only sleep with him.

I mean, damn lady. I tell my daughter "worry about yourself", let others worry about themselves. That's the kiddie version of teaching her you can't control other people's choices. Be upfront about your plan, but for the love of Pete give this man the info he'll need to do *exactly* what you're doing, which is make the choice that's right for him (fwiw, the fact that you're involving a Dad with a young kid in this is pretty ick. You guys are *not* at the same life stage).[/quote]

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