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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Of course you tell him. Simple conversation

Before this goes any further, I just want to be sure you know that I am not ready to be exclusive right now. I am still dating other people. I am not looking for a sexually exclusive relationship. I like you and spending time with you but I just want to be sure you know that I am only looking for casual for now.

Then he can decide if he is in or out.[/quote]

Did you even read what I wrote ? I am interested in sexual exclusivity with him , but he of course can go out and meet other women. I have enough data in my hands to trust he won’t sleep around: he’s very mono and concerned in that sense.  [/quote]

That doesn't really make sense - who are these other men you are going to date who know up front you aren't interested in this every becoming a relationship or anything sexual? You just want to use other men for what? Get them to buy you dinners? Where are you going to find men who want to date casually knowing it will go nowhere?

It isn't that hard to be honest. Tell the guy you are seeing what you want and don't want and what you plan to do and not do and let him decide if he is in or out. [/quote]

My dating is limited to a very few, and even out of those it’s usually just chatting and one coffee date, or business cards exchange and a brunch somewhere inexpensive where I always offer to split the check.  If I start going out with someone else periodically that would mean I’m very interested. I don’t allow anyone break the bank at the early weeks of dating. A lot of men have different arrangements already to address their sexual needs, and are still looking. [/quote]

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