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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Do you have kids? Four is a tough age, even if she didn't have her schedule disrupted by (possible travel and) an adult event. The parents should not have brought her, or should have left the room with her, but her antics do not in themselves mean she's a brat. Nor is it clear how spanking would help here.[/quote]

Four is not a tough age. [/quote]

YMMV.  Lucky you to have easy kids. Four was tough for my kid. [/quote]

First, I would not take my 4 yo to a funeral service.  I'd hire a sitter or send only 1 parent.  
2nd, if I chose to take my 4yo (or kid at any age) to a public event, I would remove them from said event if they could not behave.  Nobody else at the funeral or dining out or the movies wants to spend their time with your kid recklessly running around screaming, rolling on floor etc.

When our kids were young, we didn't dine out much, because it was a pain in the ass if the kids decided not to behave (one of us would spend dinner outside walking the kid around or sitting in the car), so you know what---we didn't do it much with the kids in tow, or we did it on a day when we knew they were well rested/in a good mood.  Or more importantly, we did it at a kid friendly restaurant so that anyone going there should expect there will be lots of kids, not expect complete quiet.  However we always removed them from the situation if they were misbehaving.

Just last weekend, we went to a fancy/higher end restaurant that does not have a kid's menu, is largely a tasting menu and fancy drinks menu.  Place seats 30-40 total, including the bar.  Great place, but not likely a good place for most kids under 10 (unless very adventurous). We arrived at 7pm and there was a table just clearing out who had two kids under 4/5 and both were obnoxious, screaming and misbehaving.  In that case I blame the parents---it simply isn't a place to take a kid that age, doesn't matter if Grandma and grandpa (or the parents) wanted to dine here.  the adults dining there have a logical expectation that the other guests will be well behaved and relatively quiet.  Half the tables were filled with couples on dates/couple nights out it seemed.  So yeah I don't take my kids to places like that because it's common sense and common courtesy to everyone else.  And damn, I'm not paying $150 for food for two adults if I cannot sit down and enjoy my dinner with a nice drink without interruption.  
Now I was glad the obnoxious kids left just as we arrived because I'd be pissed if I had been there while this all went down
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