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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Wow, can't people ever be nice on this board???

You all don't know if this is actually CL unless Jeff comes out and says it and even if she were, is she not allowed to post ever?? Come on, can't we be sympathetic to her situation instead of piling crap onto her?

OP, I really don't have much advice. Yes, obviously your dh should get a job before quitting, but sounds like there are some obstacles in the way.

Is it possible to skip the pre-school? I work, but I know even SAH parents can't do it all and would want a break, or need to run errands, etc or you may just be putting your child in school for the learning, enrichment, socialization, etc. Can you swap child care? On Care.com there is a section to meet up with other families in the area to swap care so maybe that could be an option.

Good luck with everything and hope your dh's situation improves.[/quote]

you know she wrote this, right? [i] Why I'm[sic] not surprised? (insert eye roll)

Anyway, after this past week when people has been calling me out on my threads I can't imagine what kind of boring lives you ladies live that you can just spend the entire day pulling out people's threads like this. What else do you do in your lives? This is an honest question... How many hours per day do you spend here? Is this the most exciting part of your day? [/i]

She can't control her kids, though she is a SAHM, and seems to have oodles of time to come on here and respond in broken English to every comment she doesn't like, while ignoring pointed questions posters need answers to in order to give her the help she pretends to want.

Those actually trying to help - it's sweet of you, but misguided.  She's a nutjob.[/quote]

Excuse me. I'm doing my best here to not be rude to people being intentionally mean to me, not because they deserve anything but because I want to respect those who came with helpful advice. I've said several times that I don't want friends or neighbors wondering if it's us so that's why I'm not going to respond to posters asking about certain details.

I will say once again PLEASE STOP and I mean it in the nicest way possible. I was having fun and laughing along with the other threads but this stuff is personal and serious. I'm not sharing details about our life and I ask you to please respect my decision.

Again, to the ladies who came with helpful advice I thank you for taking the time to post. It's been one of the hardest times we've faced as a family so far and we're still weighing our options. DH is so unhappy it's affecting his health. The guy who was always so strong and happy is now depressed, getting sick very often and it breaks my heart to see the man I love feeling like this. I'm not doing well myself but still I want to do my best to support him in any way I can and I appreciate you coming here sharing tips to help me through this.

And to the posters with just too much time in your hands, please feel free to bump the other threads and go have fun there. I just hope my children are not growing up with children of people who think it's OK to mock someone because a health condition or lifestyle choices that they don't "agree" with.[/quote]

Mocking bc of a health condition? Who mentioned a health condition? You know if YOU stop, this thread will disappear, right?

Another q you won't answer - where are your kids right now? Alone at Chipotle?[/quote]

See? This is exactly what I'm talking about. You come here all entitled, rude and mocking me and you want answers? Go back to your work, lady. Are you being paid to browse DCUM?[/quote]

NP here.  I am nice.  I would also like to know where your kids are.  You do seem to post an awful lot, and are always right there with a response.  Which is great.  But, I am a SAHM to one very easy child.  She is playing alone right now.  And, I barely get time to read through the most popular threads every day, and feel guilty enough about that.  In one of your threads last week you wrote that you can't even go to the bathroom alone because of your two young children.  So, what gives?[/quote]

I have a phone with internet access. I can type and breastfeed at the same time. My other child is eating her lunch. She's old enough to feed herself. Do you need any more details?[/quote]

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