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You’re the problem, OP.

The question is:

Are you a material sort who would rather drop a friend because she can’t pay instead of having free fun?

Because from where I’m sitting, it really sounds like you’re leaning that way, and are passing moral judgement on what’s an economic issue. Which makes you an awful human being, just so you know.

The other PP as well: “waah, I kept expecting reciprocation from a family who couldn’t afford it”. You guys really need to hear yourselves and your privilege.

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Agree. Sounds like OP resents the fact that this girls parents have a large family but don’t have the budget for activities.

OP comes across as selfish, judgmental, and uncharitable, even though there is nothing “wrong” with her position. [/quote]

I disagree. These are 13 yr old girls. My money is on the scenario that OP got duped by “I don’t have money today” a few times or wanted to be a good host when the friendship was new, assuming reciprocal outings were coming. Now she wants to shut it down and do free things but the girls or maybe just the daughter beg and plead and stomp and pout because OP has a track record for giving in. [/quote]

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