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Reply to "Boyfriend of 6m initiated a “state of the union” meeting."
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP. For those saying they prefer more of a organic discussion, his perspective is that he’d rather address things early and preemptively than wait until they build up to resentments / organic discussion level.[/quote] Thanks, OP, for this comment. This also goes for sex. I don't see why scheduling sex is a bad, unsexy thing. I think of it as a date, something to look forward to, something to anticipate. Organically ... that doesn't happen always. Or DH & I are out of sync. Or my period comes. Or whatever. But scheduling (even just the most basic of schedules ... me thinking ahead of time that we'll have sex Thursday or Friday this week) keeps me looking toward something. And organic discussions - can be heated. Aren't well thought out. Miss things. focus on the negative and not the positive. So, why the f not schedule them? I like it.[/quote]
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