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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This conversation is silly pre-kids.  For all you know you don’t even want to stay home.  So you dump someone and stay single forever over one comment?  This is why so many women stay single. A lot of men and women are just repeating whatever they knew growing up.  Not to mention men are completely clueless about kids and daycare realities.

Instead does he want you to be happy?  That’s what matters. If he does then he will be fine if you work or don’t work.  [/quote]

People tend to know very well what they don't want from life. A woman who doesn't want to SAH might be pushed in that direction by circumstances, but that doesn't mean that she'll enjoy the lifestyle. It's completely fair and smart for someone like OP to avoid men who don't plan to do much around the house, as this most liky means she'll have to do most of the housework whether she stays home or not. I have a hard time understanding why this seems so difficult to grasp for many posters.[/quote]

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