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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My ex husband called me to let me know that he was getting remarried on October 15th. That would've been our 5 year anniversary. To make matters worse they're having a destination wedding in Jamaica at the same resort I told him five years ago I wanted to get married, but he was against the idea because he wanted to make sure his family was there. I'm a little annoyed and maybe even a little jealous about their upcoming nuptials! This woman was originally his AP (the reason we got divorced) and now she seems to be getting my dream wedding. Ok, I'm done venting now.[/quote] Why on earth are you talking to this scumbag? If it's because you have kids..forget it. I would nip that right now. Text only and do the kid exchanges with little communication (only kids)..otherwise I would write his ass off. Happiness is the best revenge so work on that, seriously 86 this turd.[/quote] Ok OP I’m in a similar situation but not as egregious. What this behavior means in my case is that my ex and the AP (who was very involved in the divorce!!!) are very much still focused on revenge and punishment because they certainly screwed themselves up big time. Yours is likely only trying to get your attention because their new life isn’t working out very well. There are huge problems which he’s spackling over with money and flashy sh$t. He’d feel far better about his crappy new life…….if he could at least use the “good” details to hurt you. Sound like he’s in control of things? Nah. Don’t lose ANY sleep over this. In fact, pat yourself on the back and go hang out with your friends/family. You won. [/quote]
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