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[quote=Anonymous]You absolutely want to be there FOR THEM when they hear the news. Seriously, don't screw up by not making sure you're there to comfort and reassure them, and to make sure that she doesn't misconstrue things. She's already proven she can't be trusted to do what's in the best interest, so don't give her a free pass to mess things up even more without any oversight.

Later on, be careful to not gaslight them by protecting her. They'll start to see the personality flaws that made her cheat and blow up her family. Don't deny that what they see is real. Let them know, at that point, who she really is. But that's years down the line. For now, just pray that she won't make it obvious that she's with someone else already by trying to move them into her AP's house during her custody times. That's when you REALLY have problems, especially if you have girls. My BF is in this situation. His ex lives with her latest boyfriend (her AP dropped her) so his daughters have to be in some weird dude's house when they're with their mom. [/quote]

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