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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Mom decided she no longer wanted to be married so we are getting a divorce.[/quote]

Nope.

You can complain and alienate during your custody time the rest of your life.

For now, just keep it simple that things did not work out. Nothing to do with the kids.

Get them a therapist too. [/quote]

Mom cheats and you think dad should get blamed?   [/quote]

I think there's more to it than he's admitting. It's a bit unusual to be the woman who cheats AND be the one to file for divorce. The cheater usually feels they've made a mistake and wants to work it out with the spouse and for the children. I get the feeling he may have done something in the past and she couldn't get over it. [/quote]

When the woman cheats usually t[i]he husband[/i] files for divorce---[u]unless[/u] she has a cheatee who actually agreed to marry her (or she believes that he will)--then she files.  A lot of time she finds out he won't commit too late.[/quote]

It is actually not uncommon. When cheaters are so blindsided by their affairs they act like teenagers. This could the standard case of a woman leaving her husband to be with someone else. Sadly that’s not uncommon. My mom did that to my that. But karma hit her so hard. Her AP who she later married divorced her. Her kids want nothing to do with her. She is now old, bitter, angry and depressed. Men are not always the guilty partners. This forum often make it seems like all these divorced women are always the victims. [/quote]

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