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[quote=Anonymous]Honestly, I think you’re here needing to vent more rather than find solutions. That’s ok. It sounds like your child’s special needs are significant enough that regardless of divorce or not you will be intricately tied to your wife until one of you passes. That must feel like a life sentence at times to you which leads to a continual, gnawing sadness. You have not mentioned what is causing your resentment per se. If it is not something that is workable be frank with your spouse that there is no hope for the kind of marriage she wants. She can make her future choices from an honest place rather than misplaced hope. If you are financially able to get as much help even for non-child work in the household. Each of you make time even if it is alone in the house for something you enjoy. I know it’s not for everyone but leaning on your faith/God is sometimes all that can get you through. At the end of the day, remember even though you resent your wife and recoil at her, she is and always will be the mother of your children. Show her kindness from that angle alone. Your children will always remember that. [/quote]
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